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This is just one of many sites across the net, reaching out to people to take note of the problems families and children must deal with when social services steps in.   The major issues are that parents, grandparents and family members do not get to continue the family bonds with children that are removed from their home.   There is  absolutely no support for parents!   Parents are  confronted with character defamation, slander and lies from a government body that  uses the police and courts for their biding.  Parents are forced stressfully through a justice system to spend all their savings, unable to sue this government body that many lawyers state are above the law.  Social services literally gets away with murder and we the people especially the poor and disabled cannot win against them.

Story after story of children being abused in foster care, children on the street that the government still collects money for.  Parents turning to drugs and committing suicide because they have been driven to defeat.  Children turning to drugs, sex and low income lifestyles as they are forced to be one of many in an uncaring or selective caring lifestyle.

Of course there are the rare good foster homes and situations where children need fostering but truth be told, most of the foster guardians are not told the truth about the children they are in care for, or the true situations the children were taken into care.  The point that foster guardians, doctors, teachers, and neighbours will believe anything a social worker says without question is dismal.  Social workers get away with hate, discrimination, character defamation, negative thought viruses... their word rules without question or proof.  There is so much that is wrong, children being brainwashed to turn against their parents, to believe being in care is best for them, children being convinced they will have a better life in care then at home, threatened to obey or else...  The family unit is being destroyed as parents and children are being treated like animals by social workers using behavioral modification techniques to control the parents and children.

The despicable reality is that social services creates a lot of jobs taking children.  It all comes down to money.  Many people make a living from having children taken, from the social workers themselves, the foster guardians, the lawyers, judges, doctors and many psychologists children are forced to be psychoanalyzed by.  All government money, tax payers income.  And the parents who have to fight this system have no chance in hell.  The more children in care the more money needed for more programs to keep this system going.  Very few children are returned home or put with extended family or siblings.

The other sad despicable reality is us the people.  The hate and indifferences, the lack of mental and emotional control that we lash out at those close to us in spite, anger or delusion... All those people who call social services or the police against someone because that person pissed them off, or they were just too different for their liking...  Not a Christian, not a friend, not a bed buddy... way too many children are removed from the home because some spiteful person makes a phone call and the more people who can speak out negatively against someone the more the social workers have to throw against the parent/s to keep the children. Almost always the first person who complains is the person the social workers back, without looking at all sides of a story.   As we all know, who have been to family court, family court is all about slander and painting the worst ugly picture, not reality.  Social workers do not need proof of misconduct they just have to show concern to keep children, and judges are obliged to believe them without proof. 

We all need to take responsibility for our thoughts and feelings and what we give out.  Social workers need to stop feeding off peoples neuroses, and learn to recognize love in the family opposed to tearing at the heart of the family unit carelessly.  Social workers have way to much power for the lack of education and skill dealing with family issues, different cultures, and the psychological wellbeing of those they are in contact with.  

Now there are those who phone social services because they are honestly fearful for the children in a home when they hear, threats and fighting from parents with children around, or see drug abuse and neglect of young children left roaming a neighbourhood without a parental watchful eye over them.  These people make the call hoping their issues of concern are meet and these children helped.  The reality is social services is not what these people think it is, they have only to listen to the stories of children who have been through it to understand it needs a whole work over.  For every family that really does need an intervention there is a 100 that don't and mcfd totally destroys them, the end does not justify the means. 90% of the children taken are never returned to their homes or family.  All children taken have to experience their foundation of security and love uprooted, their world turned around as they are forced to like strangers in a strange new setting.    Families do everything the ministry tells them to get their children back, taking parental classes, anger management ... etc, still to never have their children return.  The Children are not always put in a better situation, sometimes worse then their home life, they are moved from foster home to foster home, sometimes with bars and alarms on the windows so they don't run away.  People may have good hearts and good intentions but its obvious from listening to peoples stories from the countless number of families that have been destroyed, children, brainwashed, drugged up, abused in care, in mental hospitals from depression etc etc that Social Services MCFD, CAS... is a monster and regardless of the intentions that someone has initially once the monsters attention is on you, life for that family is over.  There are spiteful people who know this and use this monster to their bidding just as their are people who don't know about it and think they are doing good.   The monster needs to be replaced with something that works.  The workers should be held accountable for their actions, that is part of the reason the monster is the way it is, there is no accountability.

I would like to see the abolition of social services and foster care.  I would like to see a government body that is educated to help families be a family, open to hearing the children's voice, opposed to dictating what one group of adults thinks is best.  Love and compassion needs to be the golden rule in educating the art of love and upliftment of spirit and potential.  A good teacher is taught to bring out the best in a child, to open the world to the child, to learn and explore, for the child to find their own inner potential and skills to perfection, we are all teachers by our actions and attitudes.  If we as a society keep putting each other down, belittling and holding back each others potential by hate, greed and power mongering then we are a doomed race.  There are answers to our problems but as long as we keep living to make a profit there will always be abuse and wars.  Its the children that suffer, we are all the children.  We are a species on a planet that thrives on love and compassion.  Hard-heartedness is just as destructive as no heart.

Sickened Mum
BC Canada

Picture by a 14 year old girl, separated and isolated from her friends, family and siblings, forcibly interrogated, a virgin institutionally raped, brainwashed to turn against her parents, banned from using a computer or phone, held against her will by threats ... all thanks to MCFD the RCMP and a few neurotic, bigotted people.